Ephesians 6:1-12
- Eph 6:1 (KJV)
- Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
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- Now the Bible shifts from the relationship between the father and mother to that of the
relationship between the children and the parents. This admonition comes to the children
because they probably took part in the worship service and were to obey their parents in
discipline. Notice it also says in the Lord. This was probably an admonition
to both parents and children that they were to be obedient in the Lord and were not to
partake in any sinful things. Sometimes parents sent children around to steal things from
vendors when they are not looking, or the children may do sinful things on their own. Paul
is reminding them that the child is to obey their parents but not to obey them if they
want them to partake in a sinful act.
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- Children should obey their parents because they are not yet old enough to make any
proper decisions on their own yet. If they were allowed to make their own decisions, they
would make the wrong ones and it would have serious consequences.
(Prov 30:17 KJV) The eye that mocketh at his father,
and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and
the young eagles shall eat it. Children who are disobedient to
parents were subject to stoning under the Old Testament law. Parents must instill in their
children that they are also responsible to God for their actions. They must also be told
that just because no human sees their actions, they are seen by God. (Eccl 12:14 KJV) For God shall bring every work into judgment, with
every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.
Eph 6:2 (KJV)
Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise;
Honour - Respect or value
Now the Bible enhances the admonition that children need to be obedient to their
parents. Paul brings up the fifth commandment which carries with it a promise. (Exo 20:12 KJV) Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may
be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee. If the children obeyed
their parents, their life would be long upon the land which is a gift from God. However,
their disobedience would cause them a short time in the land. The nation of Israel lost
out on the promise of the land because they were not obedient to God the Father. (Isa 64:8-9 KJV) But now, O LORD, thou art our father; we are
the clay, and thou our potter; and we all are the work of thy hand. {9} Be
not wroth very sore, O LORD, neither remember iniquity for ever: behold, see, we beseech
thee, we are all thy people. Not only are young children to respect and
value their parents, but adults are also required to obey our Heavenly Father.
There is a spiritual aspect to this verse. There are children that love and are obedient
to their parents and yet die at an early age. To live long in the land is also looking at
the fact that we are looking to live eternally. (Psa 91:16
KJV) With long life will I satisfy him, and show him my salvation. Long life is
also a figure of salvation or eternal life. Obedience to the things of God shows that
something has taken place in the life of that person. An unbeliever doesnt care
about the things of the Lord, only those who are saved will concern themselves with the
things that God has to say. A person who is saved, will live long in the land or rather
they will live forever in the land of Canaan promised to Abraham through the eternal
covenant that God made with him and to his seed. (Gen 17:8
KJV) And I will give unto thee, and to thy seed after thee, the land wherein thou art a
stranger, all the land of Canaan, for an everlasting possession; and I will be their God.
This is not speaking of a physical land, because the world is going to end and a new world
is going to be created and then we will live long in the land, i.e. eternally.
Eph 6:3 (KJV)
That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.
We have already looked at the second part of this verse in verse 2 but the first part
speaks of being well by obedience. (Deu 5:16 KJV) Honour thy
father and thy mother, as the LORD thy God hath commanded thee; that thy days may be
prolonged, and that it may go well with thee, in the land which the LORD thy God giveth
thee. Paul probably took this verse from Deuteronomy. While there is no more
promise of living in the physical land, the principle of the Deuteronomy verse has been
transferred. Obedience to parents is proper no matter when children are born. If children
obeyed their parents, then their life would be filled with growing knowledge and it would
go smoother in this world.
Eph 6:4 (KJV)
And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture
and admonition of the Lord.
Notice the warning is to the fathers since they can be a bit more severe than the
mothers can. The father is not to provoke or to make their children angry beyond what is
needed. (Col 3:21 KJV) Fathers, provoke not your children to
anger, lest they be discouraged. Now the Ephesians verse does not only mean a
provoking unto a physical wrath but the father, being the spiritual head of the house, is
to bring the children up in the discipline and admonition of the Lord. Rather than
constantly berating or over-burdening them, the father is to teach them about the things
of the Lord and salvation. The father is not to provoke a child unto the wrath of God,
which is eternal damnation, but they are to teach them about the Lord and His ways. When a
child understands this, he or she is not provoked unto wrath but is provoked unto
understanding. If they are Gods elect, then they will eventually become saved. (Heb 10:24 KJV) And let us consider one another to provoke unto
love and to good works: The provoking that God has in view for the family is to
provoke or bring about the atmosphere of a godly home. If a father is unsaved, then he
will bring nothing in but worldly ways. Instead of provoking unbelievers further into the
wrath of God, we need to provoke them into salvation and if they are the Elect, they will
come, but if not all we have lost is time. (1 Cor 3:15 KJV)
If any man's work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss: but he himself shall be saved;
yet so as by fire.
Eph 6:5 (KJV)
Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters according to the flesh, with
fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, as unto Christ;
Servants - Slaves
Singleness - Sincerity or in purity
Now Paul focuses on the relationship of those who were slaves to their masters. He is
specifically speaking to the slaves who became Christians. It has been estimated that
there were 60 million slaves in the greater Roman Empire, which made up 1/3 of the entire
population. Now these slaves were not just sitting around and getting whipped and tortured
all day long. The majority of the slaves were well-educated people and had
responsibilities in both home and business. Many of them raised the children of their
masters homes along with teaching them. They even had the right to discipline the
children without retribution from the master of the house. We see in the story of Joseph
the positions that qualified slaves could hold.
Now Paul is counseling the Christian slaves to be obedient to those masters according to
the flesh. This means that Christian slaves were owned by masters who were not Christians.
Therefore, Paul did not want these slaves to disrespect or try to cheat their masters by
not giving the required work. They were to render their services faithfully. In addition,
by Paul using the term according to the flesh he was basically telling them
that their masters had the right to ask of them anything except to render any type of
spiritual fornication. The Christian slaves were to be obedient unto Christ in matters of
worship and spiritual service.
They were also to go into their daily tasks with fear and trembling. This
phrase denotes a person treading very cautiously in their profession. There was to be a
dedicated fear in performing their tasks. They were to do the best job that they possibly
could. We can transfer that principle into the job market today. Whenever we do a job for
someone, whether out of our own business or working for someone, it must be done in the
mindset of extreme care. Basically, the verse is stating that because of who we represent,
we should always be willing to go the extra mile in our jobs. This does not mean we place
our jobs or business above the spiritual things of the Lord, but when we are paid to do a
job, we better give the customer what they paid for, a better job than the world would do.
Paul also tells us that we are to do the work with singleness of purpose. That means we
are to place ourselves in the customers shoes and ask ourselves if we would be happy to
pay for the job we are doing. When it speaks of purity, it means that we are to have pure
motives when tackling a job. That means we are not to cut corners but to give the customer
or our boss a job well done.
Eph 6:6 (KJV)
Not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but as the servants of Christ, doing
the will of God from the heart;
Eyeservice - Working only while being watched
Menpleasers - A conciliatory attitude
The Christian slaves were to serve their masters in the same manner
behind the scenes as they did when they were being watched. They were to do their work
heartily unto the Lord and not just to please their masters. (1 Cor 10:31 KJV) Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever
ye do, do all to the glory of God. Their outward work ethic had
to be taken from their hearts which had become transformed through the Gospel of Grace.
How many times do we see people on the job, who do as little as possible when the boss is
not looking? Then to top it off, they get promoted over the ones who are really doing the
work, even when the boss is not looking. It can be frustrating, but these situations are
all in the Lords hands. Gods will for the Christian is to be obedient, both in
secret and in public. We need to look at ourselves, as the slaves or servants of Christ,
although we are still Saints of Heaven. (Gal 4:1-2
KJV) Now I say, That the heir, as long as he is a child, differeth nothing from a
servant, though he be lord of all; {2} But is under tutors and governors until the
time appointed of the father. As the child, who is to become
master of the house is still in training, until the appointed time of the father to take
over, so are we. There will be an appointed time in our life when we too, will no longer
be slaves but will take our position in Heaven as rulers under the authority of the Lord
Jesus Christ. (Rev 22:5 KJV) And there shall be no
night there; and they need no candle, neither light of the sun; for the Lord God giveth
them light: and they shall reign for ever and ever.
Eph 6:7 (KJV)
With good will doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men:
The Christian slave was to work for his master in not just doing the
job to get it done, but with zeal and good will toward his master. When we are doing our
work heartily unto the Lord, we will please those who are in the human positions of
authority. (Col 3:17 KJV) And whatsoever ye do in word
or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father
by him. We must look beyond our earthly calling and see the
eternal picture behind it. We must also realize that God has allowed that person to be in
authority over us. Therefore, we must never work from a heart of resentment or jealousy.
We may never hold any position higher on earth than we do now, but in Heaven we will reign
with Christ forever. (2 Cor 4:18 KJV) While we look
not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things
which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.
Eph 6:8 (KJV)
Knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth, the same shall he receive of the Lord,
whether he be bond or free.
There are two ways that we can understand this verse and they both
carry the same principle. The first way that we can understand this verse is that those
unbelievers who have trashed Christians on the job or those that were simply lazy and did
not hold up their end of the responsibility, will be judged on Judgment Day and will
receive according to their works. (Eccl 12:14 KJV) For
God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good,
or whether it be evil. (Rev 20:12-13 KJV) And I saw the dead, small and great,
stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the
book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the
books, according to their works. {13} And the sea gave up the dead which were in
it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged
every man according to their works. Unbelievers will be judged
not only for what they did on their jobs but will be judged for all their sins. Sometimes
the Lord will bring actions into judgment on earth and may demote someone or they may be
fired for their actions. Even if Christ brings an earthly judgment, they will still have
to face those actions in the final judgment.
The next way we could look at this is that those believers who have
held up their responsibilities on the job, will be rewarded. That reward is eternal life. (Luke 18:30 KJV) Who shall not receive manifold more in this
present time, and in the world to come life everlasting. They
may be rewarded on earth with a promotion, a better salary, or even a better job, but the
real reward will come when this world will end and the believers will be in glory. This is
why the Christians on earth should not concern themselves with positions. When there are
wrongs, God will right them, but it will be in His timing and His way.
Eph 6:9 (KJV)
And, ye masters, do the same things unto them, forbearing threatening: knowing
that your Master also is in heaven; neither is there respect of persons with him.
Forbearing - Giving Up
Now the Apostle Paul switches his focus from the servants to the masters. We can also
apply this to those in management positions in business. Paul is saying that since he has
been counseling the servants to be honest and to give their masters a good
days work, that the masters, in turn, should have the same honest mindset toward
their servants. Masters and managers should not use threaten their people to coerce them
into working. Sometimes managers threaten people with firing unless they perform beyond
what they should be doing. The masters could easily threaten a slave with a whipping if
they didnt perform to unreasonable standards. Paul is saying that these threats must
not be done by Christians. The world is into coercion and threatening people by those in
authority.
Paul is warning that those in positions of power are also accountable to God for their
actions. They are being warned that God is not a respecter of persons, that is, they will
not get away with misusing their authority. The Christian with authority need not be a
doormat for his employees to walk over but he must remain strong without being vindictive
or vicious toward them in attitude or action. God can easily remove a person in authority.
Eph 6:10 (KJV)
Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.
Strong - Be strengthened or empowered
Power - Strength or authority
Might - Strength, forcefulness or ability brought into action.
Now Paul begins a section which should be instilled into every
believer. First, we are to be strengthened in the Lord. Notice we cannot be strengthened
in our own self or in our doctrines but the believers strength is to come from the
Lord. Our empowerment comes only from the Lord and it is He who is the only one who can
strengthen the believer to accomplish whatever He wills in their life. (John 15:5 KJV) I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that
abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do
nothing.
Secondly, the Christian is to bask in the strength or authority that we have from the
Lord. This strength will enable us to go through times of persecution, and it does not
matter what position we hold in this world, whether slave or master, we will encounter it
and we will then be able to pull from the endless resources that only God can give a
Christian. We are to be strong in the might or strength of the Lord. The infinite ability
of God is used for His children.
Eph 6:11 (KJV)
Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand
against the wiles of the devil.
I am sure when the Apostle Paul was chained to a Roman soldier, that God gave him the
analogy which should be used by every Christian to have a victorious Christian life.
Put on - To dress
Whole Armor - Full or complete armor
Stand - Stand Firm or establish
Wiles - Methods or schemes
The Christian is to place all spiritual weapons in their arsenal on alert status. As the
physical soldier is always on alert that an attack from the enemy will come, it is also a
warning that all Christians need to be on alert. We are to be clothed in the full armor of
God, this means both defense (apologetic) and offense (evangelistic) weapons are to be
employed. A soldier knew how to attack as well as defend. When he was engaged in battle,
he was able to give a good fight, but if his enemy was stronger, he may die in battle.
In this verse we are told to dress ourselves in the full spiritual armor so that we are
able to stand firm against any of the methods of Satan. When a Christian is clothed in
spiritual armor, they will stand fast against the attacks of Satan. Those attacks will
come through the false teachings and doctrines that Satan will engineer to be used by his
people to see if they can find a gap in the armor of the Christian. If we are fully
clothed, they we will never have to worry about there being any crevice where Satan can
get through. One thing that a Christian can count on, our enemy is never stronger than the
Christian, and that is because we are anchored in Christ. We become defeated when we allow
the false teachings to penetrate our spiritual defenses. Would a wise soldier remove his
helmet in battle? I think not and neither should the Christian let any part of their guard
down either.
Eph 6:12 (KJV)
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities,
against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against
spiritual wickedness in high
places.
Wrestle - Struggling for victory
Principalities - Rule, domain, or beginning
Powers - Authorities
Rulers - World Rulers in the spiritual realm
The Apostle Paul now gets to the heart of the matter and why it is so
important for a Christian to remain vigilant in the Scriptures. The Bible is teaching us
that our war is not against flesh and blood or other people, even though there are people
who want to do us harm, sometimes physically. Paul is likening our fight to the ancient
wrestling games. In ancient times, wrestling matches were normally to the death. This is
how serious the spiritual struggle is. Our struggle is not only concerning physical death,
but the struggling is against spiritual death. We are invading the kingdom of Satan with
the Gospel and that engenders a spiritual battle.
We do not fight against unsaved mortals who do not want anything to
do with the Gospel, but our battle is against the principalities of Hell or the rulers. We
can safely say that our struggle is against the entire domain of Satan, because when he
loses one to the kingdom of God, he does what he can to hinder that Christians, even
trying to derail that Christian life. Notice that we are at war with the leaders of the
dark world. All the authority of evil will come against us. Notice the word which means
world rulers. This is not speaking of physical rulers like Hitler or Stalin,
rather it is speaking of the dark rulers of this world that direct the war against the
Kingdom of God and Christ. (2 Cor 4:4 KJV) In whom the
god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the
glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine unto them.
This is why Satan is called the Anti-Christ because he attempts to attack and gain
victory over the Saints. Remember when the Lord looked at Peter and said, Get thee
behind me Satan. The Lord Jesus was looking beyond the human and was seeing that the
real enemy of Christ is Satan and his demons.
There is going to come a time right before the end of the world when
Satan is going to have some type of victory over the Saints. (Dan 7:21-22 KJV) I beheld, and the same horn made war with the
saints, and prevailed against them; {22} Until the Ancient of days came, and
judgment was given to the saints of the most High; and the time came that the saints
possessed the kingdom. (Rev 11:7 KJV) And when they shall have finished their testimony,
the beast that ascendeth out of the bottomless pit shall make war against them, and shall
overcome them, and kill them. We dont know what type of
victory this is. It may be the complete silencing of the true Gospel right before the end.
It may be that when the last one becomes saved that God planned to save, then no one else
will become saved and that may be the victory that Satan has in that he may be deceived
into thinking he has silenced the gospel, when in essence God has completed his program.
The thousand years may be representative of the time of salvation and when the thousand
years is over, then there will be small window when Satan will be loosed and when the last
one is saved, then sin will abound and then as the Daniel verse says, the Lord will return
and then the Saints will have victory and will inherit the eternal Kingdom. (Rev 11:11-12 KJV) And after three days and an half the Spirit of
life from God entered into them, and they stood upon their feet; and great fear fell upon
them which saw them. {12} And they heard a great voice from heaven saying unto
them, Come up hither. And they ascended up to heaven in a cloud; and their enemies beheld
them. If the true Gospel is silenced, then of course, that will
be a great day of celebration because the unbelievers will think they have won, when in
essence it will have been God working out His plan for the end. (Rev 11:10 KJV) And they that dwell upon the earth shall rejoice
over them, and make merry, and shall send gifts one to another; because these two prophets
tormented them that dwelt on the earth.
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